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Wake Up, Mr. West!

“Read a book! Read a book! Read a muh’f**kin book!/  Read a book! Read a book! Read a muh’f**kin book!/  … Not a sports page (what), not a magazine (who)/  But a book ni**a, a f**kin book ni**a/” — G-Mike, “Read A Book,” Unthugged Vol. 2, 2007. “… I read one-fourth of the Library of Alexandria/” — Canibus, “Master Thesis,” Mic Club: The Cirriculum, 2002. At a recent signing of his new book, “Thank You and You Are Welcome,” Chicago MC Kanye West apparently said the following: “Sometimes people write novels and they just be so wordy and so self-absorbed. I am not a fan of books. I would never want a book’s autograph. I am a proud nonreader of books. I like to get information from doing stuff like actually talking to people and living real life.” Of course coming from a teacher’s son, and a distinguished one at that, many have taken to underline how much of a disappointment, to the late Dr. Donda West (R.I.P.), his comments must be. As they see it, Dr. West, renowned as chairwoman of Chicago State University’s English department, had to be a “fan” and “reader” of books. Kanye’s critics, therefore, have piled on him, accusing him of promoting “illiteracy” among young, adoring fans. As a voracious reader of books, I can’t agree more that literacy is, indeed, a tool of empowerment, and anyone who would seek to deny young people this reality deserves the hottest hotel room in hell. I also believe that a generation so undereducated (and mis-educated), as this one, should be encouraged, by all means, to nurture their innate desire for critically reflective work. This must be the aim of every socially-aware entertainer. That said, however, it would be disingenuous, if not dangerous, to simply adopt the opinions of Hip-Hop antagonists like Stanley Crouch, who couldn’t wait to prosecute Kanye for “floundering in the sea of irresponsibility that allows grown men and women to never leave the ranch of their adolescence.” West’s statements smacked of “mirror-licking narcissism,” Crouch wrote, giving rise to a cultural phenomenon where “individual freedom is mistaken for merely breaking the rules by rebelling against some version of authority or saying simple-minded and stupid things just because a mike is pushed in front of one’s mouth.” If all this comes simply for suggesting correctly that many novelists are self-absorbed and verbose, or for indicating that books aren’t the only source of intelligence, critics like Crouch might want to aim their rhetorical water pistols at the 25% population, on a national scale, which go an entire year without reading a single book. Knee-jerk judges are also probably unenlightened about Loop Dreams, a South Central-based offshoot of The Kanye West Foundation, which uses Hip-Hop to teach young students the values of education. In a recent interview with Essence magazine, West talked about the essence of education, and how his program is meant to cut through the staggeringly high dropout-rates among inner-city students: “I believe that anything that you have to pay for is a choice, and high school is mandatory to gain some basic skills. Therefore, it’s easy for me to build a foundation that encourages young people to stay in high school.” Prior to that, he questioned the notion that education can be restricted to the walls of academia: “At what point are you really done finishing your education?” This notion that education is universal, and the learning process perpetual, has certainly found refuge in the critical work of many progressive scholars like Michel Foucault, Henry David Thoreau, Paulo Freire, bell hooks, Cornel West, Henry Giroux, Susan Giroux, and Lenore Daniels. Having a celebrated Hip-Hop artist reiterate it, and to a younger generation, should earn the applause of even his toughest critics. But it won’t. In the interview, Kanye West also shot back at the likes of Stanley Crouch: “When people can’t understand someone who might be presenting new ideas and thoughts because it sounds too different from what they are used to, they see me as an egomaniac, rather than viewing it as a difference of opinion or way of thinking.” It may not be that they “can’t understand,” but that they choose not to understand. After all, ignorance is “a passion.” Jacques-Marie-Émile Lacan, the late, legendary French psychoanalyst, used those terms in describing the “passion of ignorance.” He explained ignorance as having a stronger impulse than even love and hate. In his analysis, it wasn’t just the absence of knowledge, information or awareness, it was a passion for that absence, a mode of resistance to any medium through which that absence could be mitigated. Ignorance, he insisted, cuts across the grain of misrecognition, for misrecognition still embodies an idea of what is being misrecognized. In this instance, Lacan’s theory couldn’t yield more truth. Crouch and his cohorts are not merely missing the point. They intentionally disregard the core of Kanye West’s antipathy for books. Beyond being a “proud nonreader of books” (notice the emphasis on books—he might be an avid reader of scholarly journals, business magazines, online articles, speeches, etc.), he mentioned sharing no such sentiments for “information.” This is critical. “I like to get information from doing stuff like actually talking to people and living real life.” In “Peak Learning: How to Create Your Own Lifelong Education Program for Personal Enjoyment and Professional Success,” Ronald Gross explains how different learning styles can produce the same result, under variable conditions. He gave an example of a New York apparel-industry trade Editor, Nicholas Naritz, who discovered that in trying to learn about French culture, he “felt uneasy at the ‘scraps of knowledge’ he was accumulating, as he put it, from an assortment of books he had bought.” [Gross, Ronald. Peak Learning: How to Create Your Own Lifelong Education Program for Personal Enjoyment and Professional Success. Los Angeles: Jeremy P. Tarcher, Inc., 1991., p. 83.] It is unclear whether Nicholas was a book-lover or not, but he soon discovered that his “preferred way of learning… [was […]

Friday Fashion Feature: “Trend Alert: Bleached Denim”

I’m sure we’ve all grimaced at a bleach-stained piece of clothing coming out of the laundry at some point… But this season, the look is all the rage when it comes to denim From the runway: Bleached Jeans from Balenciaga’s Fall 2007 Collection Bleach splattered jeans have made a comeback like many other 80’s trends, and brands are going very bold with it. The look is hot for both men and women in all washes, but women may want to stick to skinny or bootleg fits – and of course denim shorts. Coupling the bleached look with some destruction works great, like the pair on Rihanna: Rihanna on top of her style game as usual Can you see yourself rocking this trend in summer 09? Premium Bleached Jean by Hama Paint Splatter Short by BLANK Premium Bleached Jean by Hama Sew Cute Razor Jean by Akademiks   Images: I Heart That, Denimology, Things Caught In Michael’s Eye

Game With Fame: Busta Rhymes Vs. Grand Theft Auto IV

“I love the game and I’m a big fan of it; that’s why I agreed to come out here and do it. I’m not the nicest motherf***er because this is a complicated game” says Busta Rhymes when asked about his chances of going up head to head against XBOX Live members on Grand Theft Auto IV: The Lost & Damned. An avid GTA fan, Busta has agreed to participate in Rockstar’s “Game With Fame” challenge where celebrities with enough courage to step up and join in on the multiplayer mayhem. On any given day over three hundred thousand online gamers are trading shots on the insanely popular Grand Theft Auto IV series, and the Rap icon has a big bullseye on him. Other than the obvious addictive bullet riddled warfare, Busta states his appreciation for GTA is on a broader scale: “For the most part I can watch this movie as it unfolds from just being a fan of the game itself. A lot of games are like movies, but there is something about Grand Theft Auto IV.” He continues, “Outside of the cut-scenes that may happen, this game has a continuity feel of a movie. You don’t have to wait for a cut scene to experience how ill Grand Theft Auto is as soon as you put the game in. I really got a chance to fall in love with Grand Theft with my kids. My kids are incredibly stupid nice with this game.” After going back and forth between some Patron Tequila and Sprite Green, Busta is ready to get on the sticks. He grabs his seat, controller, and XBOX headset in that order. “Aight, I’m ready to bust that ass” he jokes. Round 1 Match Type: Deathmatch Location: South Bohan In an everyman for himself setting, the most kills wins. From the jump Busta is hunted down and punished with a barrage of weapons and vehicles flying at him at high speeds. He takes numerous losses but that doesn’t stop him talking trash: “Ya’ll can bust my ass but I’m going to lie on twitter!” Bus’ continues to fend questions from fans as the action winds down. BustarhymesGWF doesn’t make it in the top five of kills. Round 2 Match Type: Team Deathmatch Location: Alderney Correction Facility Now with some backup, Busta fairs a little better. He catches a couple kills with the use of the trusty sawed-off shotgun. He runs up to the watchtower and takes aim and racks up more points. “Okay, now I’m back on my bullsh*t!” he exclaims. BustarhymesGWF comes in second after his teammate xKINGSLIMx. Round 3 Match Type: Race Location: Algonquin For the final round everyone gets tested on their motor vehicle skills with a race around Algonquin on bikes. All the gamers are equipped with bats, chains, and nightsticks taking road rage to another level. From the jump Busta takes an early lead on the entire pack. Some riders get close but end up getting viciously clocked off their bikes. BustarhymesGWF cruises for the easy win. “Ya’ll should know I’m nasty with the cars and bikes and all that there” he jokes. Post Game Wrap-Up After finishing strong, Busta is all smiles. When asked about the possibility of lending his voice to any upcoming Grand Theft Auto IV episodes he enthusiastically replies: “I would probably be the craziest nastiest character in the history in the game just because of the entertainment value of it. I love my job and I’m in the business of entertainment so I would want to be the most entertaining figure in the game.”

What Will You Listen To In 10 or 20 Years?

So, there is the question. What will you be listening to in 10 or 20 years? When I started to write this, it started out as a rant, but then I really started to think about it. I soon became distressed. I still love music and all that it has to offer so I was forced to consider the question for myself. For me, the answer to the question is two-fold, negative and positive. Lets start with the negative. I have no love for a lot of the music that is churned out of the music industry factory these days. Well, I take that back. I do like a lot of it, but there is also a lot more popular garbage out there. In about 10 or 20 years, I feel we’re going to be left with nothing, but this cool trash fronting as the new classics. Can you imagine being at a party in 10 years talking about: “Buss it baby! That’s my song right there! Want to dance, baby?” No disrespect to anybody, but I can’t. First, the music isn’t very good and that goes for other genres of music, not just Hip-Hop. On the other side, the music is full of so much filth that once you do get a bit more mature, you either 1) can’t listen at all or 2) must listen as if it were audio pornography. I can’t call it – some of it might be good for YOU now, but for me, its not good now or later. A lot of these dudes make a 80’s Ice Cube sound like Will Smith. So, when I refer to “you,” I invariable must think of the younger people of Hip-Hop. Those of you that do still watch TV and listen to oodles of commercial radio will likely think about what you love in a few years. Then there are some of you that will still have a wealth of music to listen to, but I feel it is unlikely that you will have that common thread of going to the party and grooved to the same song. I like this, you like that…its the ipod nation. But this isn’t about young or old even though it can tend to cut down demographic lines. Here is the other side. I truly feel blessed to say that I have had some of these issues and musical conflicts for myself. For example, I love the Geto Boys, but can I and do I want to indulge in “Mind of a Lunatic” these days? No. I’m not into songs about raping corpses at this stage in my adult life. But, I will say that more often than not, I am able to listen to most of my music with the same love and affinity that I did back in the day. Part of it is that, the cussing and vulgarity wasn’t so obnoxious. There were real clean versions of hit songs and even hit albums. What is considered clean today, is really just the cuss words taken out, but the content remains very explicit. Also, what was a hit back in the 90’s wasn’t really determined by what was on the radio and video. We would dictate what the radio played. Now, that I am a bit older and a lot of the music from my formative years is 10 years or more old. I heard these songs in cars, I hear it on the radio with love and affection. And what is very cool, I might add, is that I have common musical ground with people that are considerably younger than I am just on the strength of the music. They might like Main Source or Tribe Called Quest and so do I…and that’s love. With all the hate that goes on these days, I wonder in 10 years will it be looked upon with some sort of revisionist affection or will it be despised as it is now. Even though I still feel like a participant and consumer of Hip-Hop, I am happen to feel secure that I have an insurance policy from the 1990’s that promises me good music to listen to for just about the rest of my days on Earth. Love it, but I’m not listening very much these days: “The Mind of a Lunatic” -The Geto Boys. They weren’t lying. I’ll be listening to this til infinity! Souls of Mischief – “93 ‘Till Infinity” Maybe…Just maybe. Lil Wayne – “A Milli”

Wednesday Fashion Feature: Get to Know: NY Jets’ James Ihedigbo

  Kiki sat down to talk style with NY Jets Safety, James Ihedigbo.Find out about how his style has adapted since entering the NFL, what makes a woman attractive to him, and more. After a Jets 3-Day Rookie Mini-Camp in 2007, James Ihedigbo’s performance and determination helped land him in the NFL. The 25 year-old University of Massachusetts graduate currently plays safety for the NY Jets, after being promoted from the practice squad in October 2008.   Previous to his NFL career, James excelled in football through both high school and college in Amherst. Apart from his passion for the sport, James is focused on helping kids realize their full potential and succeed in life. He has started his own charitible foundation,”Hope Africa”, which focuses on providing opportunities for young Africans to better themselves through education.   His mother and late father each earned a Ph.D from the University of Massachusetts, and went back to Africa to found their own school. After James’ father passed away while he was in high school, James and his entire family have been intent on helping the school succeed. Check out the interview with Kiki and James Ihedigbo below, and make sure you check out his site, JamesIhedigbo.com, to find out more about the talented player! AllHipHop.com: So you moved from Amherst, MA to New York about 2.5 years ago. Did your style change as you got settled into the fashion capital of the world? James: I’ve always been stylish, but yes, it definitely did. I started dressing sharper, tweaked my look a bit. In MA I had more of a laid back preppy/urban look, and now my style is more GQ/urban. AllHipHop.com: After getting into the NFL, did you find there was more pressure to always be on point when it comes to fashion? How did you deal with that? James: Yes. I’m always going to different events and making appearances. There’s fans around who want to take pics – I have to make sure my hair’s freshly cut and I’m always on point. In my line of work I’m always in the media’s eye, so different brands have me visiting their showrooms to pick out new clothes all the time. AllHipHop.com: So do you pick out these clothes yourself, or do you have a stylist? James: No I don’t have a stylist. I’ve been approached with the idea, but I trust my own style. And yes, I go to the showrooms myself because I am picky about what I wear. AllHipHop.com: What is your favorite brand? James: Well I have a few… I like Sean John suits and urban wear. I wear a little Rocawear. I wear a lot of Artful Dodger and Express for men…love that line. I don’t rock a lot of Gucci, but I do like their shoes and shirts. AllHipHop.com: Do you have a preference between streetwear brands and luxury labels like Gucci? James: Not really. Whenever I’m in the mood to shop, I go out – and if i like something, I’ll get it. It doesn’t matter what label it is. I’m an “on the spot shopper”, I know if i like something right away. AllHipHop.com: What’s your favorite look for a night out in a NYC club? James: A fresh pair of black Creative Recreations, dark blue Artful Dodger jeans or Rock and Republic jeans, a black v-neck tee, and a black Gucci short sleeve button down. AllHipHop.com: How about when you’re just kicking it in Jersey? James: I love rocking those vintage looking cartoon tees.. like a tee with an pic of Snoopy. A pair of True Religion jeans and Airforce Ones. AllHipHop.com: Who do you consider a stylish man? James: Can I say myself? AllHipHop.com: (laughs) James: Jay-Z. I really like his style. He can go from a business look to a street look easily. AllHipHop.com: What makes a woman stylish in your eyes? James: The thing about women that makes them sexy is not so much the clothes they’re wearing, its their accessories and nice hair and makeup. If their clothes match their accessories, they look correct. And it’s all about the individual, whether they can pull it off. AllHipHop.com: Do you prefer seeing girls in urban gear and sneakers, or more dressed up? James: I see beauty in females no matter what they are wearing, whether its urban clothing or not. AllHipHop.com: Give our readers a few of your personal style tips. AllHipHop.com: Make sure you have at least two items you’re wearing match. Not everything has to match though. Always make sure you look sharp – iron your shirts, don’t ever be caught in wrinkly clothes. Make sure your confidence and swagger is on, don’t care about what other people think. As long as you’re confident in how you look and feel good about it, that’s all that matters.

The X Fact(her) – Don’t Tell Me What To Do With My Womb!

  You might not know who Dr. George Tiller is or understand why he was gunned down in church as he served as an usher. You probably didn’t know that Dr. Tiller survived a previous assassination attempt over a decade ago and that various anti-abortion organizations dubbed him a mass-murder and a baby killer.   Dr. George Tiller’s Wichita practice was the site for daily protesters, who objected to Tiller’s administering late-term abortions. His death by the hands of a rabid pro-life supporter may have ended Tiller’s life but won’t do much in stopping women from terminating their pregnancy. Which raises the question: Why attack a doctor who is offering a service that women are demanding?   It’s estimated that 3,700 illegal abortions are performed each day. That comes to about 1.37 million a year. Abortion was criminalized throughout the U.S. between the late 1800s and 1973. But during that time, millions of women sought and obtained abortions anyway. These “back alley” abortions were performed on kitchen tables, back rooms, using coat hangers and no medicine to numb the pain. Thousands of women lost their lives as the result of botched abortions or infections caused by the amateur procedures.   We all know at least one woman who has had an abortion, imagine her dying because she had to seek the services of an unprofessional? Are we really trying to go back to those times?   It’s no secret, we live in a hypocritical society. A society that is outraged by murder as along as the victim isn’t someone we hate. We want to tell others what to do but don’t want any restrictions placed on ourselves. Too often we forget that America is a free country. Free meaning not imprisoned or enslaved; being at liberty. Free meaning not controlled by obligation or the will of another.   In 1973 the Supreme Court ruled on Roe v. Wade, making it legal for a woman to abort her pregnancy for any reason, up until the “point at which the fetus becomes viable.” Finally, women had the freedom to decide what was best for their bodies.   For so long men who dominated politics were left in charge to decide what was best for women and some politicians are still trying implement laws regarding a woman’s right to choose. Today, some of the most vocal anti-abortion supporters are men—Bill O’Reilly, anti-abortion activist Randall Terry, director of the National Right to Life Committee David N. O’Steen to name a few.  You don’t see women telling the government to enforce vasectomies for men. Lord knows this man needs one:     VIDEO:     Instead of feuding pro-life vs. pro-choice, why aren’t folks demanding that the government make condoms or the birth control pill free? Why aren’t people protesting outside of the chain drug stores that lock up condoms and force already embarrassed customers to ask for assistance? (Have you noticed that this often happens in the hood?)   Before we get to abortion, there are many safe sex options that should be promoted and de-stigmatized. For example, there are still some women who are too embarrassed to demand a partner use a condom. Some people truly can’t afford condoms or medical insurance to cover the cost of birth control.   As a woman, no as independent thinking human being, I want to exercise full control over my body. If the government can’t tell me what faith to practice, job to have, where to live, what to eat, why should they or anyone else holding a protest sign be allowed to dictate what is right for my womb? – CH The X Fact(her) is a weekly column that appears on 99problems.org. Started on Inauguration Day 2009 by the League of Young Voter’s Education Fund, 99problems.org is a non-profit initiative that aims to keep young people engaged in the political process through activism and community involvement. Please visit 99problems.org to find out how you can get involved right now! For more on Chloé A. Hilliard visit www.chloehilliard.com

Is Black Music Month Worth Celebrating?

I recently saw the new blockbuster movie, Terminator Salvation; the latest installment of the Terminator series that started back in the 80’s. The Terminator movies are about what happens when a machine called Skynet ,which was originally created to serve mankind ,one day decides to turn on its masters and create a bunch of cyborgs to exterminate humans. This being Black Music Month, it reminded me of the state of Black culture in 2009. In this case, the mega entertainment corporations are metaphorically collectively Skynet -dead set on blasting Black music and culture to oblivion. Black Music Month, was started in 1979 by President Jimmy Carter as a way to honor black musical contributions to America, but as I listen to the radio and watch BET , I have to ask myself. “What is there to celebrate? The fact that my teenage daughter and her homies think that the highest form of black cultural expression is being able to do the “stanky leg?” Contrary to popular belief, African people have a rich cultural heritage dating back thousands of years. So powerful was the culture of Africa that one of the first things that the slave traders did was to take away the drums of the captive Africans. Scholars have suggested that Black” music is the only truly American music. If not for the influence of Black entertainers there would have never been an Elvis, Madonna, Kenny G or a Britney Spears. America would have just been stuck with Barry Manilow records in continuous rotation. Perhaps placing the custodianship of Black music in the hands of mega-corporations started off as a good idea. Maybe the early artists saw it as a way to project their gifts to the world or a way to make more money. But as they say , the road to the hot place is paved with good intentions. At some point the monsters that we created backstabbed us and turned the culture that was our lifeblood into a weapon of mass destruction. With the current war raging between the recording industry and the radio monopolies over HR 848, it seems that the machines are even fighting amongst themselves. As in the previous Terminator movies, the radio and music executives appear to be human but under their faux exoskeletons beat the hearts of cold calculating machines doing the bidding of Skynet. While there has been a lot of discussion over efforts to “save Black radio” from the Performance Rights Act legislation that some radio execs have said will be the death knell for Black radio, the bigger issue that is, skillfully, being left out of the discussion is how do we save Black culture for future generations? There is an old African proverb that says when two elephants fight, it is the grass that suffers. If the grassroots activists are left out of this discussion, unfortunately, it will be our children who will continue to get trampled. So what do we do? Writer Harold Cruse once proposed a “cultural revolution” which would lead to some sort of cultural socialism, whereby, the people would control Black culture and its means of dissemination. Dr. Claude Anderson in his book “Black Labor, White Wealth” takes a more capitalistic approach by saying that “the wealth and power of the music industry offer the most compelling reasons for Blacks to recapture control of this cultural resource.” It must be understood that we are not suggesting just having Black faces in high places but a system that is used to supply the needs of the Black community both economically and socially. The primary question facing us this Black Music Month is does anyone still care about the fate of Black culture? Seems that those to whom we would look to be on the front line of a recognizance mission to reclaim Black culture have either been blasted by money green laser beams or are being held hostage by promises of record deals or airtime courtesy of Skynet. However, a few of us are still part of the resistance. We have not lost faith in the regenerative power of Black culture that has the ability to awaken the African genius that lies dormant in the minds of this Hip-Hop generation. The war will not be fought by some b######## empowerment organization but by small bands of rebels in outposts across the country that demand to be heard. It is now time for the few of us who are willing to fight to reclaim black culture to come forward. To borrow from the John Connor character in the movie. “If you are hearing this message, then you are the Resistance.” Paul Scott writes for No Warning Shots Fired.com. http://www.nowarningshotsfired.com info@nowarningshotsfired.com The opinions expressed in this column are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the opinions or views of AllHipHop.com.

Bruno’s Booty: An Attack On Hip-Hop Or Eminem?

Eminem quickly became the highest selling artist of 2009 with the first week sales of his album Relapse. In fact, he’s the highest selling rap artist of the decade. Still, the honor did not forbid him from becoming the victim of a prank by MTV and comedian Sacha Baron Cohen, acting as gay fashionista Bruno. The incident became the highlight of the MTV Movie Awards and left Eminem with egg on his face…or something like that. Since my editorial terrain is generally rumors, the rumors, gossip and speculation are running rampant like Carl Lewis on PCP. Much of the rumors fodder centers around the so-called “Pink Mafia” making an overt, aggressive move to discredit Eminem. For the unclear, the “Pink Mafia” is a term for an underground – and potentially fictional – group of extremely powerful gays people in Hollywood and the music industry. If the organization does exist, their memory isn’t short and their sense of humor is barbed. I thought Eminem had made amends with the gay community after hugging Sir Elton John. Guess not. It all begs the question: has MTV (or just the brass) finally grown tired of Eminem even though he’s good money in an industry with Mad Cash Cow Disease? Or is an artist with his own barbed sense of humor just getting a taste – pause – of his own medicine? Then, there is another side to the speculation: was this offensive a direct sexual assault on Hip-Hop culture? To say that Hip-Hop has been uncomfortable with gay culture would be an understatement and Em was once the poster child for Hip-Hop homophobia. “Get This Mother F***er Off Me,” Eminem screams. video platform video management video solutions free video player This truly seems to be an example of the pop media washing its hands clean of a culture that was undesirable to begin with. And, when that corporate beast is finished with you, you are gone. There’s no worries about how upset they may have gotten the year’s top selling act, nor a concern over an potential outrage for the Hip-Hop community. There didn’t even seem to be a concern for Sacha Baron Cohen’s well being, which is quite telling. Maybe Hip-Hop needs to be shunned again so the artists and fans must huddle together again like it’s amidst a nuclear winter. Lets get dangerous again! On a commercial level, Eminem and Lil Wayne are Hip-Hop. And Eminem is White, which is no protection when his face is dancing cheek to cheek with Bruno/Borat’s a**. Like I said in the beginning, this is all based on rumor and speculation. But, its time for Hip-Hop to develop a survival plan that concedes the fact that the corporate powers are likely “over it.” The most reassuring factor in all of this is that Hip-Hop is not a corporate construct and, if forced, it will head back to the underground thrive and swell again. There’s already proof of this happening. Look at Drake with his swelling popularity. Check MF Doom and his ability to live without a fraction of light on him. And for all the loathing of Rick Ross, he’s selling units and crafting great music. All the while, “they” pay him no mind. I love it. Pay me no mind now, but you will have to later.

Monday Fashion Feature: “Brand Profile: TROOP”

  Another blast from the past has made its way to DrJays.com. TROOP, a popular 80’s clothing brand, has been revived by rapper Nelly. Created in the Bronx, New York in 1986, TROOP was one of the first brands to be adopted by the hip-hop community. Consisting of both apparel and footwear, the brand was popularized in the mainstream by pioneering rap acts like LL Cool J. Nelly reintroduced TROOP to a new generation of music fans during last year’s BET Hip-Hop Awards. He now adds the brand to his already successful female clothing line, Apple Bottoms. Check out an interview with Boss Lady and Nelly back in February 2008, where he discusses TROOP: Are you feeling it? Brand new TROOP gear available now on DrJays.com: Pro Edition by TROOP Bigger Deffer P/U Jacket by TROOP Pro Edition by TROOP

Mike Tyson, Glory, and the Tyranny of an Oppressive Media

“And ya’ll ain’t give him nothing to begin with/ Dilapidated buildings, the drug epidemics/ Historical story/ Pain, love, and glory/ Of Mike Tyson/ Never see another like him/” —Nas, “Legendary (Mike Tyson),” The Ni**er Tape, 2008. “Now, my first round is for the times that I sit in this cell/ The second round is for the media and the lies they tell/ The third round is for the pain that I felt inside/ Best recognize I hope not to die/” —Tupac, “Road to Glory” (Ring entrance for Mike Tyson v. Frank Bruno Fight March 16th, 1996). “Love is Respect.” —Mike Tyson   Michael “Iron Mike” Tyson has lived a life most couldn’t stand a day of; yet, the former heavyweight champ keeps fighting on. What follows is a dedication to the greatest fighter of the last two decades. But before that, this writer would like to extend his condolences to the Tyson family, as they mourn the death of 4-year-old Exodus Tyson. May they find refuge in these trying times.  Surrendered to the care of a single-mother at age 2, Mike’s road to glory would take nearly two decades before its paths became clear. The move to Brooklyn’s infamous neighborhood, Brownsville, at age 10 only further blurred the map Mike was to follow, in his journey to make history by becoming the youngest fighter to win the World Boxing Council, World Boxing Association, and International Boxing Federation heavyweight titles. Mike did all this by age 20.  While most fighters bob and weave their ways through matches, Mike knocked-out his opponents fearlessly, rendering whoever he came across dead-on-arrival. With his record-making debut at the Junior Olympic contest, knocking out his opponent in 8 seconds, it was clear Tyson wasn’t the average kid around the block. He would build on this new-found confidence throughout his legendary career, winning 50 out of 58 games, 44 of which were by knockouts. But before the glory came, he would have to confront the death of his mother at age 16, leaving the future heavyweight champion emotionally distraught. Tyson later recalled how much this loss partook in the knockouts he became famous for: The bodies of his opponents symbolized a receptacle, into which he deposited his pain, sorrow, and anguish.   As one who grew up entrenched in gang deathstyle, Mike was naturally mean with his hands. But boxing hardly consists of strength alone. The discipline, alertness, and psychological skills he needed to survive in the world of professional boxing would take years to develop, under the tutorship of renowned boxing manager and trainer Constantine “C##” D’Amato. Mike credits C## with equipping him with the technical skills that proved successful later on. C## became the father he never knew. Nonetheless, the death of Mike’s mom triggered a fit of erratic impulses, which put at risk the lives of many around him. C## was aware of this, but failed to act appropriately. No other is more willing to acknowledge that C## was an honorable man, than Mike himself. On several TV appearances, when asked, he never fails to mention the large emotional gap C## filled in his life, more so with the untimely passing of his mother. Mike was alone in this world. And the only friend he knew was C##. This friend, unfortunately, had ulterior motives that, though meant well, played a part in the unremarkable events that have since blemished Mike’s reputation.    C## failed to address adequately the wounds Tyson’s troubled childhood still left opened. Seeing the potential for a future heavyweight champion in him, C## could hardly control his expectations. Tyson was drilled, drilled, and drilled. This drilling process, helpful as it was later on, only stimulated the pent-up rage embedded in the young boxer’s soul. C## permitted Tyson’s character flaws. When he most needed discipline, drills were instead suggested. But the professional is hardly personal. And none other knew this better than C##, himself, who had mentored many young men into becoming well-groomed adults. The problem: Tyson was different. As an old man, whose long and wavy life was slowly coming to an end, Tyson was his last hope for success—an ATM machine into which he could deposit his last change of advice and athletic investment, and reap an handsome payback.    C## was Tyson’s first encounter with a world filled with opportunists, many of whom would sell their birthright for a mess of pottage. His death in 1985 only further complicated life for Tyson, leaving him helpless, alone, and vulnerable. It’s a strange existence when 90% of those with whom you cross paths are endlessly seeking ways to exploit your fame, fortune and future. Though Tyson’s world wasn’t always filled with Don King clones, the degree of selfishness with which his confidants shamelessly stole to fill up their coffers, made sure he was bankrupt by 36.   But even with the luxurious lusts of losers like Don King, and the emotional scars his traumatic childhood afforded him, none of Mike Tyson’s opponents could deal bigger blows than that the sports, news, and all around oppressive, media meticulously landed on his iron-like, though fragile, body. The media, having failed with Ali a couple decades before, had learned their lesson: The key was to start early. That way, full control over the athlete’s psyche would be attained.    By age 20, Mike was already being described, by commentators, as a “beast,” “monster,” and “animal.” Those primatial nouns were cautiously used to define and determine the parameters under which viewers and boxing fans were to judge the budding fighter. Unenlightened observers might defend the commentators, explaining that no harm was meant, and, in fact, it was a testament to the hitherto unforeseen intensity Mike brought to the ring. But such arguments miss the mark. They also excuse, and lend credence to, a media which sees wealthy Black male athletes, who defy the odds (mainstream society), as objects worthy of scorn, hate, and antagonism.  In Mike’s case, the threat level was amplified: He was a […]

Friday Fashion Feature: Hate It or Love It: Amber Rose in NYC

Is Amber Rose giving Rihanna a run for her money when it comes to her edgy style? She was spotted with an unidentified little boy, strolling the streets of NYC yesterday. Amber Rose Amber was wearing patent black Doc Martens, black/grey leopard print tights, a navy blazer and white shades. It’s obvious from these pics that some pedestrians were pleased to see her in this outfit, but do you think this is a good look on her? Leggings are still going strong into this summer. The great thing about them is they’re comfortable, you can throw on a plain tee over a bold pair like Amber’s, and they look hot paired with anything from sneakers to wedge high heels. If you love leggings, like our girl Amber does, check out the latest vibrant pairs we got in stock on DrJays.com and DJPremium.com: Gothic Allover Legging by Kani Ladies Female Fatale Leggings by Hellz Bellz Leggings with Snap Shirred Plackets by Ecko Red Crossbones Foiled Leggings by Ed Hardy DiscussionsView ResultsImages: Bossip

Stop All The Drake Hate

First, let me admit that I am not a fan of Drake’s, at least not in the traditional sense. I downloaded his last mixtape and was told the last one was better. I appreciate this one, but I haven’t felt compelled to get the first one. I figure I’ll hear it when I hear it. I don’t have the urge to go see him live either. I am not particularly interested in his background, aside from the funny fact that he was “Wheelchair Jimmy” on that show “Degrassi High.” (Weird!) That typically should signify his downfall in Hip-Hop…acting. Go figure. I think he is talented, but prefer that he not sing so much. Nevertheless, my views aside, Drake is here and he’s the hottest thing out. And, in true contemporary Hip-Hop fashion…the hate has swelled and runneth over.   Two major mixtapes, an affiliation with Lil Wayne, some ghostwriting, shows across the nation and a bidding war with a pair of major labels. With all tha going for him, Drake is still face to face with the scorn of the Hip-Hop nation. Now, I have to wonder where we have gone wrong where we resolved to tear our young talents down before they even get up. I know that the crabs-in-a-barrel mentality has always been present, but we are talking about fans and critics, not peers. In Hip-Hop, there is a tradition of hoisting the artist on our collective shoulders and pushing the best to the top. And “best” doesn’t always mean best – it means those that resonate with us. We’ve done that regardless of their talent. Look at Young Jeezy, Maino and Gucci Mane and look at Jay-Z, Wayne, Eminem and others. Varying degrees of talent with one thing in common. Hating for no reason – when did this become fashionable? Hip-Hop is gradually turning into a Nation of Haters – hating just to hate. This means investing a lot of energy in hating some rapper like Drake when you should put time in supporting that rapper you love. That is assuming you love anybody. It’s probably time to rechristen the term fan into something else like “people that ruin people before they reach their potential.” Fan is short for “fanatic,” which means one that has “excessive enthusiasm and often intense uncritical devotion.” This idea of fanaticism is rare in 2009. This editorial isn’t about Drake, even though he is the centerpiece. The hate towards him is puzzling considering what he’s achieving before our eyes. Is there loathing because he’s got a shot with Rihanna? Or that he is a fair-skinned, half Jewish Canadian and not from the South Bronx or the Dirty South? Perhaps the hate stems from his close link with another “detested” (and million-in-one-week-selling) rapper in Lil Wayne? I am open to any and all reasonable answers, but I think people just hate. I’m not a Soulja Boy fan by any stretch of the human imagination, but I sit back and I laugh for that young man. I laugh because he made it through somehow. I would have bet money that he would be a failure after his first album, banished forever as a wack one hit wonder. But, through all the hate he got, he survived another outing. Now, lyrically Drake does laps around Soulja Boy, but they share the same hate in the hearts of fans. Does anybody remember the HYPE – I mean, sheer, unbridled HYPE surrounding Nas when he first emerged? Imagine what would become of Nas has he just gotten started in 2009. Does it seem even remotely familiar in concept? Here is a news flash: Redman, Nas, Jay-Z, Eminem, Dr. Dre, 50 Cent – these talented individuals are not going to be around forever. It is high time we stop the hating and draft some new, fresh faces into the game. The League of Hip-Hop is already a difficult sport to rise in, why are the fans the ones blocking the young rap talents’ shots when all they want to do is dunk for your entertainment? PS: This is not a PSA for letting wack people in the game so don’t try it! Good Guy aka EveryMan is a columnist on AllHipHop.com and his columns appear every Thursday or when he sends them over. Of course his views are not necessarily that of AllHipHop.com, but we don’t hate Drake either.  

The X Fact(her): Lady Justice is Latina

“Do I want her to fail? Yeah. Do I want her to fail to get on the court? Yes. She’d be a disaster on the court. Do I still want Obama to fail as president? Yeah. AP, you getting this?” – Rush LimbaughI know more about Sonia Sotomayor than I do my next door neighbor. Since being announced as Prez Obama’s pick to replace retiring Justice David Souter of the U.S. Supreme Court, her life has become plastered all over the media. The last time I took note of a Supreme Court nominee was Clarence Thomas, whose hearings regarding sexual harassment charges by former colleague Anita Hill made him a household name. It’s safe to say the reason why Sotomayor is getting so much coverage is because she is Latina and grew up poor. Period. End of Story. Don’t believe it. Check the headlines: “Sonia Maria Sotomayor rose from the projects”; “Sotomayor seen through filter of ethnicity”; “Sonia Sotomayor a Role Model for Kids with Diabetes” Why, after the historic election of President Obama, are we will awe struck by accomplished folks of color? The focus on Sotomayor growing up in the projects (for the record she only lived there for a short number of years before her family moved to a co-op), her parents being from Puetro Rico and being diagnosed with child diabetes is touching, but should that matter? Is that more important than her stance on abortion, gun rights, civil rights and employment discrimination? Conservatives are having a field day with Sotomayor’s nomination. “Do I want her to fail? Yeah. Do I want her to fail to get on the court? Yes. She’d be a disaster on the court. Do I still want Obama to fail as president? Yeah. AP, you getting this?” – Rush Limbaugh “She may have empathy for the poor, gays and minorities — but she is likely to ignore the U.S. Constitution and the rule of law.” – The Traditional Values Coalition, claiming to speak for 43,000 American churches Then there’s the flipside to her nomination, or shall we call it the race card. Republicans acknowledge that the Hispanic vote has been good to them in recent elections and the rejection of Sotomayor will leave a bad taste in the mouths of brown voters. Manu Raju writes on Politico.com: Republicans may face a backlash if they’re seen as charging too hard against a nominee who’s both a woman and a Hispanic. Red-state Democrats will be under pressure from the right, which will make sure that their conservative-to-moderate constituents know all about Sotomayor’s most controversial views. And some GOP Senate candidates may find themselves on the horns of an unhappy dilemma: Do you play to the conservative base or to Hispanic voters who could play a huge role in their 2010 races? While Republicans have a lot to lose or gain from Sotomayor joining the Supreme Court, what will it mean for the rest of us? Black people of America thought Clarence Thomas was going to do major work on our behalf once he was appointed to the Supreme Court but haven’t heard as much as a peep out of him. There is no denying that Sotomayor is a success story. She’s the result of a single mother household and received a world class education,  attending private school to graduating from Princeton and Yale Law School. Prez Obama spoke so highly of her during this week’s press conference stating that Sotomayor is more distinguished than any current Justice was when they were nominated. Talk about a diss to the sitting judges. But that got me to thinking about something my parents always told me, “In order for you to compete in society you have to work twice as hard just to be acknowledged.” It’s true; it takes a lot of work and accomplishment for folks to see past your skin color so why are we focusing on Sotomayor’s pigmentation and not her platform? Forgive me for not judging a book by its cover.- CH The X Fact(her) is a weekly column that appears on 99problems.org. Started on Inauguration Day 2009 by the League of Young Voter’s Education Fund, 99problems.org is a non-profit initiative that aims to keep young people engaged in the political process through activism and community involvement. Please visit 99problems.org to find out how you can get involved right now! For more on Chloé A. Hilliard visitwww.chloehilliard.com 

Wednesday Fashion Feature: “Celeb Style: Ashanti”

Do you think Ashanti is a stylish woman? Ashanti with her boyfriend, Nelly She seems to gravitate towards big shiny jewelry and outfits that hug her curves tightly. As you may have heard in recent news, it was announced that the “Princess of Murder Inc.”, may be dropped from the label. The label head, Irv Gotti, has said that they haven’t been on speaking terms for a while, and there is nothing he can do but end their musical/business affiliation. He recently told MTV, “the relationship has run its course, the chemistry of what’s needed — we’re in two totally different places”. DiscussionsView Results Images: Bossip

Michael Vick, Hip-Hop, and the Politics of Punishment

“What if Peyton was fighting dogs instead of Mike Vick?/” —Jadakiss ft. Nas, “What If,” The Last Kiss, 2009. “They say I’m all about murder-murder and kill-kill/ But what about Grindhouse and Kill Bill?/ What about Cheney and Halliburton?/ … How’s NaS the most violent person?/” —Nas, “Sly Fox,” Untitled, 2008. “What if history was changed?/ Slavery reversed/ Would black ladies see white boys/ And clinch they purse?/” —Fredro Starr, “What If,” Firestarr, 2001. Finally, Michael Dwayne Vick is free—well, not so. Stuck with an ankle monitor, Vick is to spend two months of home confinement at his Virginia residence. Last Wednesday, the former Atlanta Falcons quarterback was released from a Leavenworth, Kansas, federal prison, after spending 19 months there for allegedly running an illegal dogfighting ring.  Right on cue, the sports media is fired up and ready to go. Weeks before his release date drew close, the pundit circuit had begun setting parameters under which Vick could once again play the sport he was untouchable at. To hear them tell it, he would have to make a public apology, televise commercials warning against the dangers of dogfighting, beg for Roger Goodell’s (NFL commissioner) forgiveness, and make amends—financially—for his wrongdoings. Among other things, he would have to join forces with People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals (PETA)—the same organization which recently asked that he undergo “mental evaluation”—to emphasize regret about his past conducts. Vick is being pressured to form alliance with this group, which ruthlessly engages in crude advertisements, ostensibly to justify their love for animals, such as dressing up in Ku Klux Klan (KKK) garbs and accusing targets of attempts to create a “master race” of pure bred dogs—which, they argue, shares similarities with the KKK’s values. Forbes magazine National Editor, Michael Ozanian, captured this whirlwind of self-satisfying rhetoric-fest last Saturday, in a column titled “Free Michael Vick.” He wrote: Vick has served his time under the law. He should not have to bend over backwards and do summersaults to prove anything to NFL commissioner Roger Goodell. Vick should not have to kiss the butt of the Humane Society or assist the animal rights group in any way. He should not have to “donate” any of his future earnings to any causes to repent. The law is the law. Vick broke it and paid the price. It is now time to completely free him.  It’s important to note that Michael Vick spent 19 months behind bars for a crime, inhumane as it was, more mainstream than the elite, gotcha media tried to make it out to be. (And it ain’t just Black folks doing it.)  The acerbic condemnation lashed out at Vick during the beginning stages of his trial, proved that, for many, it had less to do with Vick’s alleged crimes against canines, and more with his function as a Black Quarterback (an anomaly in the league). And not just any Black QB, but a fearless one—at that. Before the prosecution could unravel all evidence sought in incriminating Vick, most pundits had convinced themselves that not only was he guilty, but jail time was due. The reason for this was explained by Black Philadelphia Eagles Quarterback, Donovan McNabb, in a 2007 HBO documentary.     McNabb, no stranger to media-generated controversies, himself, was more qualified than any other in his contention that Black athletes, and Black Quarterbacks especially, bear burdens their White counterparts are never subjected to. “There’s not that many African-American Quarterbacks, so we have to do a little bit extra,” McNabb said. Using his career as a case study, he continued: “Because the percentage of us playing this position, which people didn’t want us to play, is low… we do a little extra.” That extra he spoke off, is what constitutes the stark racial disparity of coverage issued by mainstream media and directed at Black athletes—more so, the non-conformist ones. Vick was one of those—like T O—non-conformist. And for that, he paid a steep price. I’m not, by any means, suggesting that Michael Vick or T O are progressive athletes with revolutionary inclinations, but their firm commitment to on and off-field unregulated self-expression, counts for much in the larger equation of Black professional athleticism.     I’ve always believed that the greatest sin a Black professional athlete can commit, in the eyes of Major League Sports, is to intimate—not necessarily state—that their career is not the most important priority in life. Once that happens, the media is whipped-up and unleashed on these personalities, and equipped with all weaponry needed to destroy, defame and defeat that spirit which provoked such defiant conviction. If unsuccessful in defeating the spirit, they usually have no choice but to assassinate the characters themselves. This has happened time and time again. Jackie Robinson, Jim Brown, Muhammad Ali, Tommie Smith, John Carlos, Mike “Iron Mike” Tyson, Shareef Abdur-Rahim, and Etan Thomas are but a few examples. The threat posed by such intimation never misses the detection of the three draconian-like commissioners: Roger Goodell (NFL), David Stern (NBA), Bud Selig (MLB). Above all, Roger Goodell has been most competent in taking Authoritarianism to unreached heights.   In Vick’s case, it’s hardly a secret that no other figure must be more pleased with his appeal, than Mr. Goodell. Of course, as one only who possesses the power to reinstate Vick, Goodell has made known—in indefinite terms—what requirements are made of him: “Michael’s going to have to demonstrate to myself and the general public and to a lot of people, did he learn anything from this experience? Does he regret what happened? Does he feel that he can be a positive influence going forward?” At this statement, I’m reminded of the old joke, coined by 19th century journalist, Charles Anderson Dana: “Dog Bites Man: Not News. Man Bites Dog: News.” Any observant eye can see that Commissioner Goodell has been anything but a “positive influence,” in his role as CEO of the NFL. Taking any and all opportunities to regulate the lives of players, Goodell’s policies have […]

Monday Fashion Feature: Brand Profile: Aerial 7

Bop your head to your music in style with the bold Aerial 7 headphones, now available on DrJays.com. As stated on the the company’s official website, “our headphones are influenced by our devotion to art, streetwear, action sports, and DJ culture”. Shock Mansion guys in Aerial 7 The brand offers multiple innovative models, such as the “Street Series” which includes the Tank, Chopper, and Matador. Tank by Aerial 7 Chopper by Aerial 7 Matador by Aerial 7 They are all compatible with everything from MP3 players to the iPhone, and feature “high end acoustics that deliver rich, amazing sound that will have you lost in the music, and standing out in the crowd.” Angela Simmons in the Tank headphones by Aerial 7 Get the best of both worlds with Aerial 7 – impeccable sound and vibrant styles. And they start at only $50!

Friday Fashion Feature: Trend Alert: The Harem Pant

The harem pant may be better known as the updated “MC Hammer pant”. This baggy fit is a notable trend this summer, in fabrics like satin, fleece, linen and more. They are characterized by having loose fabric at the crotch, thighs and behind, then usually getting tighter towards the calves. Obviously one great feature is that they are comfortable – but can you pull off the look? Jennifer Lopez rocks harem pants The best way to wear these is with a fitted top to stay away from looking like one big parachute, or in these type of jumper forms: Off the Shoulder Cat Suit by Love Moschino Harem Jumper by Baby Phat Also, pick a shape and fabric that drapes nicely and flatters your behind, because these pants can exaggerate that area in an undesirable way. Although she looks beautiful, Jennifer Hudson did not pick the best fit with these pants If you’re a bit wary about this trend, you could try a subtle version like these: High Waist Harem Short by Baby Phat Ladies, have you been rocking harem pants, or can you see yourself giving them a shot?   Main Image: Hellooo Gorgeous

Women: Get Your Mind Right

Preface: Before the hate comes, please take the time to read this full post and then bash me. I have some real honest views with real life experience to back my claims. There is a phrase that reads, “”The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.” I happen to like this one, “The grass is always greener of the septic tank.” The latter is from a book from Erma Bombeck and it is completely unrelated to the topic at hand. Bombeck is an American novelist and very intelligent women that was (and still is) well respected. She is an anomaly based on the women I see these days. All this got me started when I read a post from this chick that calls herself “The Single Girl. This person is my enemy, because she’s polluting the world. I don’t use the B-Word, but she wrote in an online dissertation the following: “Fellas, if you have used this argument: ‘I’m a good dude; problem is chicks don’t want a good man.” Chances are you have convinced yourself that GOOD is a nice way of saying what you really are-WEAK.” G.T.F.O.H.I thought the age of Obama destroyed the myth of the good man as weak. Here is what women do. They tell themselves that a good man = a weak man. Then, they go an get a “thug,’ because that is how they define a real man (men do this too, pause). Then, they either 1) try to convert the thug into a good guy of some sort or 2) cry domestic abuse when her animal man beats or cheats on her. Or, they may have been reared from a young age to desire the white picket fence, dog and 2.5 kids and get a dude that can give them the Middle Class along with the green grass. Suddenly, after a few years, they decide that’s not good enough and start looking over the white fence into somebody else’s yard. Now, the Jones’ (or the Combs’) grass looks greener or the grass on TV is greener or the grass depicted in a racy novel. Women seem to innately and naively take the most romantic movie, TV show or film and then think it’s supposed to translate into reality. Like, how can a guy compete with, “You complete me,” as once said by Tom Cruise? I mean, I would love to fly around the stars shooting up aliens like Luke Skywalker, but you don’t see me trying just because I’ve seen “Star War” a few times. Some mess just isn’t realistic. When its all wrong, women think they are the star in a real-life Terri McMillan book, or worse, a Mary J. Blige song like “No More Drama.” If you get a good dude, why consider him weak? Or if you have a good dude, why discard him instead of trying to work with him? See, believe it or not, a lot of men grasp this concept. Its called “Its Cheaper To Keep Her.” I know that sounds crude, but for me and the other “good dudes” that takes on a few meanings. One such meaning is that it’s just easier to work things out if you have good women down with you than going out and weeding through a bunch of coal looking for a diamond. Some dudes like coal…I don’t. When you are already invested time and years into a relationship, are you going to toss that? Sure, people do it, but I’m talking about the guys that I know who are going through pure hell, because they didn’t take the trash out. YET, the house is a mess and your lady is on Twitter? Really? Best believe that if you are in an extended relationship, that person you meet in the beginning is going to be a different creature after 5 years. Furthermore, the world is going to change. In my opinion, quite a lot about men remains consistent (eats, sleep, work, die), but women change more with the times, more with “the world.” They also do a lot more self-analysis. Well, that’s cool, but all the external stimuli (Oprah, counseling, girlfriends, books) leaves little room for ones own thoughts. Get your mind right and let’s stay together. PS: Steve Harvey needs to have his manhood pass revoked for that book he wrote. Preying on desperate women like that for a check. SMH. For your viewing pleasure: Even Tom Cruise Can Lose It, Babe! video platformvideo managementvideo solutionsfree video player “Here’s Oprah!” “Way More Drama” Good Guy aka EveryMan is a columnist on AllHipHop.com and his columns appear every Thursday or when he sends them over. Of course his views are not necessarily that of AllHipHop.com. 

DrJays.com Exclusive: Triple 5 Soul and Ocean Star Apparel Merger

DrJays.com will soon be carrying the recently revamped Triple 5 Soul clothing brand. Industry pioneer, Ocean Star Apparel, has just announced the merger of Triple 5 Soul into its family of brands.   “We’re extremely pleased to announce that our new brand partnership with Triple 5 Soul is complete and is being launched for Fall 09 August on the selling floors”, said Clement Leung, OSA COO. “The integration of this heritage street wear brand is perfectly timed with current market trend opportunities and a natural fit to our core manufacturing competencies”.   “We are confident that integrating the design and marketing skill sets of Triple 5 Soul into our vertical supply chain will quickly make the brand a powerful asset to our U.S. and International distribution base”.   By staying true to the core essence of the brand’s DNA and past history in the market, OSA plans to extend Triple 5 Soul’s existing industry reach by exploring new retail and license opportunity’s in the USA and abroad.   Daymon Green, Triple 5 Soul Brand Development  OSA, based in NYC, is a comprehensive vertically integrated supply chain, a proprietary and national brand marketer with vertical in house product development from yarn to finished garment. Born in 1989, Triple Five Soul originated as a humble storefront in New York City’s Lower East Side.   Originally entitled with a tongue-in-cheek reference to one of the then-popular telephone party lines, T5S quickly became a focal point for a multi-faceted, quickly emerging cultural movement.   In 1997, only months after opening its NYC flagship store on fashionable Lafayette Street, T5S began expanding international wholesale business.   Increasing coverage in a wide range of fashion magazines, a genuine popularity amongst this generation’s cultural heroes and the unorthodox establishment of a base of operations in Brooklyn’s then upcoming Williamsburg neighborhood all contributed to Triple Five Soul’s broad and fashion-forward visibility as a leader in the streetwear industry. DrJays.com Content Coordinator, Kiki and buyersEricka Mitton and Aaron Jones paid Triple 5 Soul a visit to write the line. Check out a few highlights from the appointment. We previewed great wovens, fleece sets, rugby shirts and more.         Are you excited about the T5S’s comeback?

The X Fact(her): Five Political Topics That Don’t Go Over Well

“There are three things I never talk about in public: politics, religion and money.” My experience as a journalist has shown me that a lot of people think this way. It’s normally the people who have money that don’t want to talk about it. People who don’t really care too much about religion are the ones that don’t want to talk about it. And folks who are staunchly conservative try not to talk about their views in the street for fear of being publicly stoned to death. Obama’s historic race had everyone discussing politics, so much so for the year and a half that he ran his campaign it became as normal a conversation starter as “How’s the weather?” Now that he is in office, the culture he created for using ones voice is allowing folks to speak their minds on American policy, economy and such. Don’t think that everything is fair game. “Five Political Topics That Don’t Go Over Well” 1. The Israeli-Palestinian conflict Talk about a mood killer. Try uttering the words, “Well I think Israel/Palestine should…” and watch people’s smiles disappear and ears perk up. The war between the two nations has been going long before Israeli was made into an independent Jewish state in 1948. The Israeli-Palestinian conflict is like the abusive couple that lives upstairs. Sure, you hear them fighting every night. You wonder why they still live together. Time to time you call the cops, who only get turned away because the couple is determined to work it out themselves. At some point, you become numb to it. Why bother getting involved. Every American president since Israel’s creation has tried his hand at helping the feuding populations reach an agreement but to no avail. You think that you have the grounds to speak on it like it’s as simple as 1, 2, 3 will create for you new enemies for life. This topic also has a way of showing you just who people are. Within seconds everyone around you will reveal their nationality, folks you’ve known for years. “I’m Jewish”, “I’m Palestinian”. It’s their way of saying “watch the the @#*% you say!” 2. Welfare Reform In 1996, President Bill Clinton signed into law the Personal Responsibility and Work Opportunity Reconciliation Act of 1996 aka The Welfare Reform Bill. This basically meant people receiving public assistance from then on would have to abide by a new set of federal and state guidelines or face being booted from the system. No one likes the people who take advantage of the system. In fact we all have this image of that moocher, who has several kids running around and spend their days sitting on the couch watching their stories while the majority of society works for a living. Yet the problem with speaking about Welfare Reform in public is that your views, either for or against, can come across as racist or elitist. Someone is bound to make a correlation (whether or not it’s a valid point) between public assistance cases being black and brown single mothers. As you try to defend your P.O.V, chances are you come off as hating black people, single mothers or supporting laziness and out of wedlock births. 3. Torture Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi is about to lose her job for denying knowing anything about waterboarding. She blames the CIA for not informing her but a lot of people are calling her a flat out lair. Americans know we are at war, want victory but have the luxury of not witnessing the brutality that takes place in order to measure our success as the strong arm of the international law. We want Osama bin Laden to be caught but we don’t think about the hundreds, thousands of people (some innocent, some not so much) who are beaten, killed or disappear just so we can piece together bits of information they confess under duress. Our government politely calls it “enhanced interrogation techniques” but really it’s good old fashion torture and it just so happens that wateboarding is it’s poster child. The reason why we as Americans can’t talk about torture is because 95% of us have no idea what torture truly is and most importantly who the victims of it are. Being for or against torture is a catch-22. We all want to be safe, we just don’t know, want to know or support the measures our government takes to make that possible. 4. Reparations If you are African-American, here’s a surefire way to make white people uncomfortable: Talk about you still not having your 40 acres and a mule. Reparations is one of those things that should great in theory, especially for the folks who would be on the receiving end, but has no chance in hell of ever happening. Actually, reparations was real, short lived, but real: In 1865, after the Confederate States of America were defeated in the American Civil War, General William Tecumseh Sherman issued Special Field Orders, No. 15 to solve problems caused by the masses of refugees, a temporary plan granting each freed family forty acres of tillable land in the sea islands and around Charleston, South Carolina for the exclusive use of black people who had been enslaved. round 40,000 freed slaves were settled on 400,000 acres (1,600 km²) in Georgia and South Carolina. However, President Andrew Johnson reversed the order after Lincoln was assassinated and the land was returned to its previous owners. In 1867,Thaddeus Stevens sponsored a bill for the redistribution of land to African Americans, but it was not passed. Thus began the fight for African-Americans to be properly compensated for hundred of years of slavery. During the 90s, reparations came back into public yet no one could agree on how blacks should be repaid. Some where happy with just a public apology from the government (didn’t happen) while other really want some land and a mule (definitely not going to happen). Still, there is not better way to play the race card than to bring up reparation […]